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Transgenderdate is a dating site for trans women, trans men and non-binary people — and for the people who are genuinely interested in dating them. Everyone here already knows why they came, so you can skip the part where you explain yourself and get to the part where you meet someone. Creating a profile is free, and you can browse the community before you decide whether to upgrade.
On most mainstream dating apps, trans members are an edge case: a toggle buried in the settings, a profile reported for existing, a conversation that opens with an interrogation. This site was built for the community instead of retrofitted for it. Gender and orientation are asked properly at signup, every photo is checked by a person before it goes live, and search works on who you are actually looking for.
Verification is a photo of you holding a word we give you, reviewed by someone on our team within one to two business days. It is optional, it puts a badge on your profile, and trans members who verify get VIP at no cost.
Your date of birth, exact location and email address are never shown — only your age and city. Distance is yours to switch off. Private photos stay off your profile entirely: you send them to one person in a conversation, and you can take that access back.
Browse by who is nearby and who is actually active, then message them. There is no deck to burn through, no countdown on a match, and nothing expires because you took a day to reply.
Trans dating means something different depending on who is asking. Here is what the site does for each of the people who use it.
Meet men and women who are here on purpose, not by accident. Verify your profile and VIP is free, permanently — no card, no trial that quietly renews. Report and block are one tap from any conversation, and the moderation queue is staffed by people.
Trans men are an afterthought on most trans dating sites, filed under a category built for somebody else. You get the same profile, the same search and the same free VIP on verification as every other trans member here.
Your gender is a field you fill in, not a box you are forced to pick the nearest approximation of. Non-binary members verify and get VIP free on the same terms, and you decide how much of your location anyone can see.
Being attracted to trans people is not something you have to be cagey about here. Everyone signed up knowing who is on the site, so you can lead with an actual conversation instead of working out how to bring it up.
Your name, your age, a photo and a few words about what you are looking for. It takes a couple of minutes, and it costs nothing.
Search by gender, age and distance, or browse who is nearby and recently active. Favorite the ones you like and see who has been looking at you.
Message anyone who interests you. Upgrade to VIP to read their replies, see every photo, and send video, voice notes and private photos.
Trans people take on more risk from online dating than most, and moderation is where a site either takes that seriously or does not. Ours is done by people.
Photographs and videos go into a moderation queue and are checked by a trained member of staff before anyone else can see them. Nothing publishes straight to the site.
Report another member without leaving the chat. The categories cover trafficking, exploitation, a member you believe is a minor, and threats of violence — and reports go to a person.
Block anyone, at any time, for any reason or none. You do not have to explain it and you are not asked to reconsider.
Our anti-trafficking and consent policies say what we actually do, which content you can withdraw, and how to get your account and data removed.
Read our anti-trafficking and exploitation policy and our consent and content policy.
Yes. A free account lets you create a profile, browse members and start conversations. VIP removes the limits — reading message replies, all photos, video uploads, private photos and voice messages — for $14.95 a month or $79.95 a year. Trans members who verify their profile get VIP at no cost. You can cancel from your account page at any time.
No. You can send messages on a free account. Reading the replies is a VIP feature, so most members upgrade once a conversation is actually going. Trans members who verify their profile get VIP free and never pay for it.
Trans women, trans men and non-binary people, alongside the men and women who are genuinely interested in dating them. You can search by gender, age range and distance, so you are looking at people who match what you are actually after rather than a shuffled deck.
Every photo and video uploaded to the site goes into a moderation queue and is reviewed by a trained member of our staff before anyone else can see it. Profile verification is handled by a person, not an algorithm. You can report another member directly from a conversation and block anyone at any time.
Your age and your city. Your date of birth, your exact location and your email address are never shown to anyone. Distance is on by default and you can switch it off in your privacy settings, and private photos never appear on your profile at all.
More answers are on the support FAQ.
It takes a couple of minutes, it costs nothing, and you can look around before you decide whether VIP is worth it. Trans members who verify their profile get VIP free and never pay at all.
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